It is indeed a blessing to have someone willing to understand you. Someone who can appreciate you despite your flaws, keep up with your sense of humor, and love you more than you do him. But not all people have been in healthy relationships.
According to data presented by Pew Research Center, over 65% of women say they experienced harassing behaviors from someone they had dated, like unexpected touching that made them uncomfortable or spreading rumors about their sexual history.
With a boyfriend who goes above and beyond to show you his care and support, sending him a thank you letter is considerable. In this article, MailToSelf provided helpful tips and guidelines that you may equip when writing a thank you letter for someone special.
What Is It?
A thank you letter for an ex-boyfriend is an informal letter wherein you can have the ability to show your sadness and emotions at the same time. You can share your thoughts about your separation, including the best memories you shared that you’ll treasure and care about.
It is an opportunity to take a step forward and have the courage to show him that you’re going to heal and be strong as the day that you both decided to break up.
When Is The Best Time To Write It?
- You can make one whenever you are exhausted and need to express yourself but have no one to talk to.
- Writing it does not obligate you to send it. It may be used as a personal diary.
- When both of you break up with no proper closure.
- If you still feel thankful for all the time you both spent together.
- Despite your separation, he remained a wonderful boyfriend and best friend. It just didn’t work out.
- If you have a lot on your mind but lack the bravery to express it personally.
Here are some effective tips on how to write a thank you letter for your ex-boyfriend:
- Be Truthful: If you are resentful or dislike him, don’t be afraid to be yourself. Keep in mind that this letter is about your actual feelings for him.
- Share your thoughts about your relationship: Also, tell him what you’ve learned through the two of you’s relationship. Whether it made you stronger or not.
- Thank him for what he has done for you: Despite the separation, still show how grateful you are to meet him and thank him for all the good things he has done for you.
- Give some advice and best wishes: Tell him you hope for the best for both of you. Inform him that you will go on and stand up despite the pain he has caused you.
Templates Of Thank You Letter To An Ex-Boyfriend
I am thankful that you broke my heart. While it was initially difficult to endure, I learned much about myself. I know I am stronger as a result of the heartbreak I experienced. Because of you, I was able to grow as a person and learn more about myself. For this reason, I want to thank you for breaking my heart.
Hello, My Ex Boyfriend
You would expect a letter or phone call from me now that we have parted ways and happily engaged in our lives. A phone call can be a breach of your privacy, and this is something I don’t intend or approve of. So, I am writing a thank you letter to my ex-boyfriend.
After we stopped our relationship, there were many occasions when I was thinking about you. My feelings about you are warm and positive. I see you in a positive light and believe you have helped me recognize my strengths. Now, I can see my future and purpose more clearly.
Thank you for all the fights when you did not mention my shortcomings. Now that you are not physically around me, I recall all the weaknesses that you pointed out. And believe me; I am working on each of them. I am even taking the help of experts. For example, I have started learning Spanish, and now I spend more time on physical exercises. Please, don’t be amazed! This is true!
I don’t want to take more of your mind space. It gives me immense satisfaction that you are doing well in your life.
For all your kindness and beautiful love, I am sure you will get more happiness and amazing people in your life.
Your Ex Girlfriend
I never thought I would have to live without you, but I have learned how to do it just fine. I was heartbroken for some time, but now I want to thank you for breaking my heart. Due to the heartbreak that I experienced, I learned more about myself. I was also able to mature as a person. I feel bothered when you break my heart.
Dear Ex Boyfriend
I write this thank you letter in the hope that it will settle all the unsettled and unspoken issues between us. This should give us more peace of mind and strength to approach the next phase of our lives with a clear head and conscience.
You may think that I needed to be more serious about the relationship in the same measure as you were. At the moment, I am more concerned about my studies and career. I will only consider a serious relationship when I have a secured job and career. Well, this should clear the confusion.
This thank you letter also acknowledges that you handled this delicate relationship with a large heart and a sense of accommodation. I genuinely appreciate everything and will be eternally thankful for your love and support when I need it the most.
Last but not least, I will never forget how you made me feel special and how I always found love and assurance in your arms.
It gives me great satisfaction that you have moved from where we left. The test of any relationship is how you view and treat it when it has ceased to be. You are an extremely decent and dependable person on this count. Cheers!
Hello, My Dear Ex
Today, I want to relive our moments together and write a thank you letter to my ex-boyfriend.
A relationship begins when both need each other. This can be the need for physical intimacy, companionship, or just sheer convenience. Over time, we have invested in each other a significant amount of love and emotion.
And this has led to an expectation of reciprocal returns from each other. Communication is necessary for small mutual expectations to become a mountain of unfulfilled expectations that is too heavy for either of you to carry along. However, thank you for your understanding and maturity. Our love story did not follow this oft-repeated template.
I want to keep it short. Nevertheless, I want to acknowledge that your presence has made my life more beautiful and enriched. Stay blessed!
I would like to say you to, that I am thankful that you broke my heart. While it was difficult for me to endure at first, I was able to learn a lot about myself through the process. I know I am stronger as a result of the heartbreak I experienced. Because of you, I was able to grow as a person and learn more about myself. For this reason, I would like to thank you for breaking my heart.
I never thought I would have to deal with living without you, but I have learnt how to do it just fine. I was heartbroken for some time, but now I would like to thank you for breaking my heart. Due to the heartbreak I experienced, I was able to learn more about myself. I was able to grow as a person as well. Thanks for breaking my heart.
I would like you to know that I felt heartbroken when I found out that we couldn’t be together. Despite this, I would like to thank you for breaking my heart. This is as, I was able to learn a lot about myself, and grow as a person. This was only possible because you broke my heart. Thank you for giving me this opportunity to grow, and become a stronger person. For this reason, I would like to thank you for breaking my heart.
My Dear Ex Boyfriend
I write this letter to thank you for being in my life during one of the most challenging times. Now we are pursuing our lives and career away from each other. It often makes me think about what and how you might be doing. This is also because I have a lot of free time these days. After the college reopens, I will have little time for these things. But let me tell you I think positively about you and feel grateful to you for many things – including the pink gown you had bought for me. 🙂
My Most Memorable Time with You
Recalling the time we spent together, the most enduring moments seem to be the ones that I spent with your parents. I could never tell you this before but I greatly appreciated your decision to introduce me to your parents and also take me to your parents’ home during the holiday. It was an intimate feeling being part of your family and being such an important person in your life.
Please, Check Your Ill-temper
However, I will be grossly wrong if I don’t point out some of the flaws I noticed in your personality. You argued on silly and unimportant things that often made me angry. Of course, you would repent and say sorry later on. But you should not be getting into hot arguments all so frequently. As a girlfriend, I expected more love and tenderness in your behavior. Nevertheless, I knew you are a gem at heart and you intend well for me.
A Lifetime Experience
You are a passionate lover and a die-hard romantic. Even though we have been in a relationship for a short time, it seems long enough to fill an entire life. For this reason, I don’t carry any disappointment now that we are living our lives independently away from each other. I just want to say a Big Thank You for all the beauty and sweetness you brought to my life. For all the anger and shouting, take my thumbs down on your Insta that I don’t visit anymore!
My Dear Ex
Here is my thank you letter to ex boyfriend, YOU!
The Kiss and Part
Our story is an example that the end of a romantic relationship is not always sad. In our case, we parted simply because our ways were diverging naturally. Both of us were happy to welcome the new phase in our personal lives. It was about time we kissed and parted and savored the memory and emotions we had created in our togetherness. That’s exactly how it went.
You Made Me Feel Special
While breaking up a relationship, an important point that should stay in focus is both have gained substance and meaning from the relationship. You made me feel good, beautiful, sensitive, intelligent, and capable. This led to everyone’s expectations, including mine, increasing. Life is no longer on the same plane.
Thank you for holding my hand, and holding it intimately.
Your Ex Girlfriend
Dear __________ (sweetheart’s name),
We are at a stage in our lives where our professional lives are affecting our personal lives. It must have taken a lot of courage for you to accept it and write a goodbye letter. I am glad you did that. I could never have gathered the courage to do that.
It is so strange that sometimes even when you want to stay with a person, you cannot. You will always be the part of my life that I loved to my core. It is sad to see you go. But by walking away, you became the bigger person. I will gladly accept that fact. You have always been the bigger person between us.
There will always be a part of you in me.
I wish you all the success in life. I love you.
___________ (your name)
Dear ___________ (sweetheart’s name)
There were times when I thought how it must feel to see your loved one separating from you? When I saw ____ (your friend’s name who broke up recently), I would often wonder how difficult it must be for him/ her. Who knew that destiny had similar plans for us?
You were my first love. Everything you did for me was special to me. Do you remember how you took me out for an ice cream every time I felt low? Or how you would drop little notes for me and how I would find them at odd places throughout the day? You cared for me and I loved you more in return.
Well, it is sad that we could not make it work. I wish you all the best in your life. I will miss you. I will always keep your letter close to my heart.
__________ (your name)
Dear ________ (sweetheart’s name),
Nobody ever told me to be prepared to write back if your sweetheart sends a letter of goodbye. I never thought that I would stand at such a crossroads in my life. But I will write today because it would help both of us to end this on a good note.
I am not so happy to have received your letter. But I am glad that you had the strength to write it. We were inseparable. All our friends always thought that we were the personification of a happy romantic relationship. You made my world more beautiful.
But we cannot deny that things have been somewhat off for a while now. Is falling out of love even a thing? I never knew it could happen to us. But it is wise of us to part rather than sticking with each other forcefully. You have a beautiful life waiting for you, So do I.
I will love you, always. But I will miss you more. Your crooked smile and your unkempt hair. I will keep the good memories with me till my end.
All the best for your life baby.
__________ (Your name)
Dear _________ (sweetheart’s name),
From the moment I opened your letter, I knew it was going to be tough. You were the person who completed me. You were my solace. Just the thought of meeting you for the dinner would often give me the strength to pull through a tough day at work.
It is so sad to realize that we could not make it work. Will it change the fact that I love you? I don’t think so. I will always love you. I will always remember the walks with you. How you held my hand in a protective way. How I would look at you and think, “How can someone be so caring?” It makes my heart fill with a lot of emotions.
I know it must have been hard for you too. But I am glad you had the courage to tell me the truth. Farewell, my support system. I am sure we will meet in a world where we will not fall out of love.
I am attaching a picture of us at the movie theater. I hope you keep it as close to you forever as I do.
___________ (Your name)
Understanding, compassion, and forgiveness are fundamental in every relationship. Things like romances can, nevertheless, come to an end. We will experience sorrow and disappointment, but let us encourage ourselves to see the good side of every scenario.
We cannot be put in a condition in which we cannot cope. Showing your feelings and expressing your emotions, even through writing, can help you feel better. Aside from sending a thank you letter to your ex, you may also send a thank you letter to yourself, friends, family, and loved ones for being a source of strength.